I write too, and yes graphic sex scenes are not my forte, tried but I end up scrapping the scene, prefer teen rule over the the overt rule, having said that some teen programs are risque
I tried to use the Wickedwhims as well (I don't like it neither, as doing porn with my sims is not my business..) but there are so many options to disable in the settings that I let down. It's not a problem to wait for me, particularly if Turbo is on vacation.. but as a suggestion, I would only prefer the pose menu to be separated from the other options..