I uploaded my game to itch.io but I can't see it on the jam list

it takes a little time, mine showed up after a few hours. you’ll see a “My Submission” checkbox on the submissions screen, too

I'm having the same issue and it has been a while.
When I look under "submitted Jams", I can see I submitted to the Jam, but I'm not seeing my game on the page with everyone else's.

I just updated my "draft" to be "public", which I hope will help.  I'm still pretty new to everything.