Yeah, back when I made the first versions and thought it'd be a thing 100 people tops would play with, I thought the audience would be overwhelmingly male and the dialog was explicitely for dudes.
Later made it neutral as I could, without completely bleaching it out. It's complicated to make the dialog fit all cases. I could sorta adapt the different prompts to what I do, and I thought other people in the same boat would do the same.
Will be a different system and hopefully more fun in v2