Lolly likes the foreplay usually. Try to start with some lighter toys and/or focus on less sensitive zones, then go more pushy when her arousal raises. OR may be she is bored because of not enough stimulation (which is unlikely).
Look at what she's saying: her phrases contain a hints about problem zones. 'Show annoyance indication' option helps to find those zones as well. 'Show detailed stats' also may help you to understand better how things work.