Thanks for your suggestion, but i m affraid rebuilding whole character progressing system might be a bit out of my reach
as i said dating is my goal.
true teaching might not be integrated part of date, but you never know what can you learn from other person :D
it could be doable to bind teaching points to work or level up, instead of dating system, but i dont see teaching that bad
once you know how to squize juice out of date, you could get up to 200 points in vanilla 15 (10+garden) actions
+ you dont need to know every combat skill, simply take ones you want to use