Thank you! I have made it my top priority to get the subscribestar page started, and I can happily say that the kinks you just mentioned are planned!
What is not really being acknowledged is a Patreon account can be taken down by a single complaint because of something so simple as "You have allowed the landlady to be renamed and therefore have broken our no incest rule.". Patreon is actively banning anyone that might think about breaking the rules and they will actively remove themselves from adult games entirely because "who needs income when you have principles?"
I like the look of your game and I hope it goes well for you.