i went to try liking both but the bonding event didnt appear so its probably not that unless i did something wrong.
i think i found the solution. theres a post that says to complete the hunting contest and than after once youve gone to the ruins at day a scene with Othra will appear about the bonding event.
Don't forget, the option only appears between 10:00 - 16:00 hour of the day, and dosen't happens in the Fair day in Bareshade.
yeah thx for the reminder