You don’t like it when your real-life parents decide who you can or cannot love, but you're okay with your cosmic Parents forcefully arranging a wolf bara for you?
It's not only through love that you can understand each other. As long as you open your heart, both Cassius and Neferu will understand you.
You are neither the chosen one nor a space prince, so don’t expect someone out there to arrange everything for you. Happiness is something you must achieve on your own. If you want others to understand you, start by understanding the people around you.