thanks but i only have the elven and beastkin places and leafshade haven as travel targets and at all three nothing happened when I go there with mc and lilith so guess thats too is bugged then?!
edit: now it seems to work after 24h and restarting the game some times... though now the booting up of the game is back to 5min plus sadly... after that quest have to check the training bug a 2nd time too