I would suggest posting this to Subscribestar instead as Patreon is very arbitrary in what it allows and it's come down hard on various NSFW creators that are vanilla or not
If it's a SFW project however, I would suggest renaming your patreon to distance from your itch so patreon can't find and ban you from their site as a whole
Please take this as advice and not a demand. I just hate when I hear of NSFW creators getting their pages taken down! Good luck and I hope you have a good day!