Sorry in advance, English is not my native language.
What do you mean by: "...whether female or male, love a character of the same gender. This made me angry..."? Maybe I'm interpreting it wrong, but does LGBT content bother you?
Some people have a personality or a reason to be softer or more sensitive, for example I am a fairly soft, sensitive person and although I am a man, some of us can have those attitudes or we already acted like that when we were children and that is not strange, it can Whether he is right or not, but if there are soft people and their gender, it doesn't have to be important (I don't want to get into the issue that a man must be rough and blah blah blah).
Who said that a man is a man when he is tougher and rougher? A real man is the one who stands for what is right, hates injustice, and wants to give every person his right, no matter what the reason. This is a real man. As for children being sensitive, I have no problem with him. I was like that, but in the end, there is a time in life. This recognizes a child or a person as a man, and I mean a man in his attitudes and actions, not just a man by name.