WOW, I never know Japanese men going through so much stuff like that. But is it more pleasure to role-play in a character who has the most masculine among man, so then they can feel like they are the most superior and don't have to mind about the demand of society, rather they can control what others do and make them all submiss, include their lovers and their rivals? I think that kind of pleasure is way better than being a weak man and let other man ,who are unimaginable stronger than them, stole their love one and their rights as a man.