IF YOU DON'T WANT TO FOLLOW THE USUAL FLOW OF THE GAME, PLS READ THIS!
Soooo.... currently I'm still playing this game. And from my experience, the best thing is you should try making money in 2 first years before jumping into any romantic interests lol. Here me out lmao.
It's a kinda weird way to approach a romance genre game but yk irl you should have money before trying to pursue anyone lol (in my opinion). But trust me, it works in this game if you want to go for more than 1 char. So, when you're free of financial problems (go outside town in the icy forest or the volcanic area and collect as much stuff as possible and sell it, but don't sell all, you may need some for future quests) (the debt increases every month guys, and even if you marry Finn, he still collects the debt lmao trust me I tried to marry him asap to get rid of the debt but for the last time I played, it didn't work lol), SAVE YR PROGRESS then go for the chars you want lol. It won't create bugs and overwrite scenes of one character to another.
If you have questions, pls ask, I'll try my best to answer to my knowledge. If anyone can answer, pls help me answer as well ^^! Hope this helps.