I have played many harem games, often the main character is cheating, or the MC doesn't always have full consent. Either that or the MC is coerced into it for the "greater good" due to magic hentai reason. However, in this game, the reason for the harem is just so wholesome, cute and very well aproched. Sure, there is still a bit of "sex power" shenanigan, but the relationship between the MC and the main girl is so sweet and adorable. This game does a really good job of making the sleeping around fun and concentual with everyone joining being aware and willing to join.
I hope a guide to the card location will be made one day as I may have found many simply by skipping and paying attention to the audio cue, but the 4 cards I REALLY want I cannot find at all DX.
For the content disabling, the way I have seen it handled by a different game was that you do have a list of option you can disable, but the game still gave you the option (with a warning) to give it a look anyway in case you change your mind/want to give it a try once/want to let it slide once for a particular situation. I particularly liked it as it gave you an idea of exactly where you are missing content and why. Would it be possible to do something similar here? That would be kind :3