Ok I got the solace to work now but it seems that the movement patterns for it are incomplete leading to disconnecting of the toy and not reconnecting until the game is restarted. I tested with the deepthroat option and the original speed it starts with is fine but as soon as the speed varies over a certain point to fit to the characters speed something goes wrong. Selecting the gonna cum option immediatley disconnects it. Faster works until the character increases the speed a bit on her own then it seems to disconnect immeadiatly.
might be a issue of buttplug or of the pattern setup and what features of the toy are supported for it.