He never said that,you're not getting the point of what he meant. Neither did I the grammar and over all english was shite lol. But what I'm getting from his rant is how you are molding the main character to sound like a little beta or loser. In retrospective he's kind of right make him relatable give him some more charm let him be an extension of yourself per se him whining about being a virgin and getting not girls does gets tiresome to some readers. Hope that helped