...I did it...but at what cost ðŸ˜
HAHA it should say your relationship has been progressing well, i didnt realise there were two versions! this is a direct quote from the person i learned it off and it may be spoilers, do not read if you dont want spoilers to it lol.
'The main decider seems to mostly be the choice you make at the coordination, when Kham speaks to D—, I haven't gone back and tested everything, but I consistently failed when I clicked ||"It's isn't your fault, nor is it your mother's",|| and our relationship went up when ||I allowed them to remain bowing and told them that "it wasn't their fault"|| I can't remember the result of asking them to stop bowing, but only telling them that it isn't their fault
I think what tripped me up was that if you fail this, your relationship doesn't go down until like two chapters later when D— voices their opinion during court with the Stewart.
Roughly every other choice seems to be pretty flexible, or at least, you'll know the impact of the choice on the relationship immediately after, making it easy to go back a choice or two'