uh-huh. So some girl grabbed my ass in a bar, I'm a rape victim? It was sexual. It was non-consensual. It was thus unlawful. By your definition, that's rape. 80-year old woman in a nursing home pinches the butt of her male nurse. That 250lb man was publicly "raped" by a frail 80-year old woman.
mmmmk.
You go tell a woman who's been permanent traumatized after forced penetration that some horny chick pinching your butt is classified as the same thing she went through. Fucking slap in the face. Drastically dilutes the impact of the term.