I like your style, but I think that some of us are pushing for a bit more of a direct approach: More disclosure, more objectivity, based upon subjectivity. It's not that we want people to feel put down. But a lot of us can use some uplifting as well. Leveling* often does neither. At any rate, if no one gives me any feedback I just end up overcompensating and getting an infectious migraine.
Lin Ji.
*not to be confused with Leveling Up or Down.