Okay so I think I messed up bad somewhere. I found Ste in Victoria's cave, fought her to free him and pissed him off, now he's at -20 in the relationship page. Even with the latest update, he's not showing up at all in the farmstead no matter what. I just keep getting told I can't see anything when inspecting the area and wandering around, I find the house but it just says that I relax.
The Korg/Hayden hot spring event isn't activating for me, Rose isn't visiting at home, and the Bernard evening event in Bareshade doesn't trigger.
Did I mess up because I didn't talk with her and offer her Arion to use instead?