I don't think there's ever an instance where it forces you. The few scenes that have to happen regardless will tell you what the kink is and allow you to skip the scene, filling you in on any plot related things you missed. That's the main reason I love this game so much
Not everything, but niche kinks you can generally disable. If there's something in particular you want to avoid, let me know, and I can tell you if it can be avoided.
