Its all about practice - Sometimes the character you're fighting will have a better reaction to "actions" than others.
Keep a list of the Character (Green Ork Twink etc) and their reactions to each "action" - select the best one from Very effective, seemed to like, and didnt like etc. When you learn more actions, try them to see if they;re better.
A weapon, cockring and buttplug will all help with your resistance to attack(how fast your bar fills up), as well as how effective your action is. (how much of the bar fills up)
keep practicing, you get points for trying and learning new actions all the time.
Hanth's game is hard - if you have a laggy device, it makes it even harder, try only running RMA when you're playing if possible.