I also want to add that when I dated Harold I bottomed 1 time and topped 2 - 3 time. Not really very even. Therefore having the choice for position is Kind of a great idea considering it's not very even.
Since ignoring it is out, I can really only see two practical solutions for you left:
Pretend you’re Grifter instead of MC
Fanfic.
I don't wanna get fucked by mc Grifter is the hot one. Fanfic is a good idea though.
Lol
