That's a shame. You are missing out on a ton of great games where the main character isn't a guy, like Horizon Zero Dawn, Hellblade, Tomb Raider, Celeste, Half-Life: Alyx, RE 2 and 3, Metroid...
Huh? What are you talking about? I was talking about a vn in which I set my character as male and give him my name but turns out to be a lady, if i play tomb raider I'm obviously expecting to play as Lara and not as me lol
My bad, dude. I misunderstood your comment. Based on your wording, it sounded like you couldn't be immersed in a game if you weren't able to play a guy. My apologies.