oh no,, you're not overreacting at all. they were saying some really ignorant bs,, and no you weren't being dumb at all. also,, i'm proud of you for coming out !! i know it's really hard,, and finding yourself is hard (i would know i spent about seven months contemplating my gender identity) and that having unaccepting people in your life can be hard. you're not alone, okay? you be you and i accept that. if you need to talk to anyone hmu i give okay advice sometimes