He said so because you hinted that you want to see gay porn scenes. Better if there is no gay porn. For your tastes, there are separate games. No need to ask the authors of normal games to add gay scenes to them. This is the same as adding a piece of shit to a delicious dish.
What is wrong about the option for it?
I hated the furry scene at the certain farmhouse. Would have loved for an option that let me not have it.
You likely hate Male Romance and lust. I get that. I think furries are disgusting. But I respect that others do not only like it, but truly love it.
The game isn't focused on gay or furry, I can just close my eyes when the furries appear. (I'd prefer a checkbox to disable it, but it's not a big deal.) <3