I managed to get Ashley's birthday last event to trigger by using the max stat code on the twins, Maria, and the Android but was greeted by a recurring warning message so I'm going to say that is what you were referring to.
I hadn't used any codes before but having played around now with changing stats and friendship levels, I'm wondering if there are codes to reverse them, so you could say reset the friendship level or move it to a certain spot? I noticed you can do this indefinately with Nia and Sylvia, and this would be a great way to go back and run through things again on certain characters without actually restarting.