I just want to add something to what you were saying. This game is supposed to reflect real life, and in real life, you don't get to customize people. You have to accept them for who they are. That doesn't mean you have to like them, and this game reflects that. You can not date cove and you can even be rude to him. (enjoy the parts that you can customize) Like peachi, essentially said appreciate the game for what it is. If it's not your cup of tea, that is fine but don't expect them to change the game just because you don't like it.