I'm a woman and I played the game and it never once occurred to me that the dev hates women. You are reading way too much into a game that is supposed to be a fun and silly little experience. Drawing conclusions about the dev like that based off of this game is ridiculous.
Horror protagonists are generally dumb and tend to make poor decisions. This is a staple of the horror genre; I even reference this during my playthrough. As far as horror games go, this one is VERY tame. I would advise not playing other horror games if something like this upsets you.
In the future, do not attack devs just because you dislike a game, please. They make the game; they are NOT the character(s) in the game. It is a story that is meant to entertain. Don't accuse the dev of being a bad father/husband just because of a silly game. Words cannot express just how ridiculous that notion is.