Ahhhh, gotcha! I think if you prefaced that question with the explanation you just gave it would totally change how it comes across (to me at least, maybe no one else had the same reaction). I would've spilled my guts into that space knowing some great resources may have been found to help me on that journey.
I love that you organisers of MFGJ go to such effort to help everyone. The camaraderie and community are why I come back each time!