Since you apparently have such low experience with Autism, I say try to make a game that shows what the view of autistic people is in the eyes of people who don't know much about it.
I feel like you misunderstood my statements. The problem is nothing in video games seems autism unfriendly, so how do I make something autism friendly when as far as I see, all games are equally so? Perhaps the issue is that I only have experience with mild autism and more severe autism makes a more noticeable difference, but what is that difference?