Is it just me or does nate only have one shocked face that doesn't match well with things? Its the smae when he talks about someone getting murdered and when he's just sadly remembering that his family hardly traveled when he was growing up.
They're both sad events but i dont think you would react like you are witnessing a car crash right in front of you or having vietnam fashbacks to both of them.
mabey downcast eyes and a sad smile/ half smile for the more reflective sadness or something.