Having had 2 caesarians... it's not actually that bad. although sitting up on your own is a pain in the rear. definitely a good idea to get tested to make sure you're not allergic to either the staples or the stitches. my first time, they ignored my metal alergy, and I ended up dealing with infections. would definitely reccomend trying for natural birth first... and NOT looking when they're preping for epidural. O_O I will never not have nightmares. I've never heard of farsightedness and going blind trying to have a natural birth either... kinda strange. makes sense in a strange way. I have astigmatism, a lazy eye, and I was told farsightedness... basically, if my eyedoctor wasn't an amazing, kind person I'd be linses that are thicker than the bottom of an old school soda bottle.
we have the lost things in common! I'll spend an hour looking for a lost sippy cup, and then open the laundry room door, and find it sitting in front of the dryer, even though I had put it up on top of the back of the stove, before it went missing. good piece of advice. or my glasses.... or my phone.... or a library book.... silverwear.... my head if it wasn't attached to my shoulders...
as to where I live... I'm in what's essentially the Ninja state in the US. I say that because people often mix up Idaho, with Iowa, or Ohio... both in name, and location, which is comical because Geography is something we started learning clear by in the second grade. if we make it into the news, it's for a major forest fire, or there's some sort of string of freak deaths. It's a very mountainous place, with lots of great hunting, and fishing. Lots of great places for Kyaking, and whitewater rafting too. if you ever end up on the west coast of the states during the summer I can reccomend a nice spot to float the river, which is pretty relaxing. my home town is actually situated along a pretty sizable river. if you ever get the chance, I would reccomend ordering Huckleberry candy, namely liqourice. I can't reccomend elderberries, sadly, cause there's nowhere I know of that sells elderberry juice... seems to be something only my grandma makes.
As per spoils... yes, it's probably better to not hehe. I can live with relying on my imagination until release time, and then I will joyfully share the whole, wonderful experience with my communtiy!
Always a great pleasure, SweetChiel <3
much loves,
Tath