boi what the hell boi
Why do you need to hear it from someone directly
Thats like, imagine your cishet, and you a (hypothetical) cishet person decide to call someone a fag And a tranny
And another cishet persom says "hey. You can't say that" the correct response isn't "well ur not gay so imma say it anyway" what you should do is stop saying because even though you haven't been told by a gay/trans person that its offensive to say those slurs, you now know its still offensive to do, therefore you should just idk.. stop?
Don't get so defensive dude