So, apparently the new futa content can be disabled? but I don't recall seeing the prompt for it. and i am not seeing an option to disable it. do i have to restart the game for it? I would rather not restart just to make this setting change
Always has been an option, but you can disable it clicking on the wrench icon in your phone. Although I recomend restarting the game since you could encounter more bugs along the way if you're using an old save file.