The game seems to forget if the intruder is male or female. I picked female sleep and then make a run for it and the end part acts like the intruder is male and not female and there are other spots where it ends up at the run for it option with the same outcome.
The shower scene NO and ... both lead to more dicks. During the relax scene - a new lover - it doesn't matter what body type you picked for the intruder it will always be voluptuous but also ripped at the same time.