I'm quietly shaking after reading this. I'm a fat transwoman, who transitioned at 42 and I struggle every moment with being a 'good enough woman', even more so when I drag being fat into it.
Despite looking in the opposite direction to Primrose...the view is the same. Looking vainly towards this far off thing called 'Woman' that we can't ever reach. I want to be that woman, I want to feel that I'm normal and beautiful and I'm failing if I don't, while Primose thinks she should be that woman, as is expected of her, as she is seen.
You made Primrose into such a beautiful person it was like a transcendence of this awful spectre of gender expectations, just for a moment.
Thank you for bringing Primrose's story to life. Please hold Primrose in your heart with love for the rest of time, for all of us.