my guy, calm down, if they don't wanna listen then they don't simple as that, don't worry about what you can't control, cause at the end of the day, they wont care(sorry about the grammar, just a quick reply tho.)
i'm neither so rude as to just ignore someone, nor am i despicable enough to lie. that doesnt make me not-calm :) Poes law means ppl see what they expect to see.