as i remember, the harness can be taken from Barrel by losing to him. the collar can be found at Victoria's lair by rooting her backroom (though i'm not sure with this one)
and could you tell me how to get the leash as it seem i can't find it
yes!! i got the harness!! i bought two other collars at the brothel and that worked fine. and, you've probably already read the detailed message above, but you get to buy the leash from torben.
