I'm so sorry, this whole story is saddening me to the highest point.
I don't have any means of help that can change any of that... - but know that my heart is held in pain, no human being deserves any of that.
You have my heart totally with you.
I leave you lots of love from Lisbon.
I beg of you, be very careful of yourself, take good care of yourself.
JohnEP