Yes the situation is not great and I guess we all are scared and worried about all of this.
I'm from Finland and let me tell you; no one I know hates Russians now because of this. We feel bad for the Russians too. I know the news are very different on this side of the border and it's difficult to keep on track of what's really going on - the truth is propably somewhere in between. I have many Russian friends living here in Finland and I know the situation is confusing.
Hopefully the solution will be found soon.
All the best for you and your family!