OK so the auto event is not occurring. On what day is Ashley's BDay supposed to occur? At least 20-30 days have passed since the scene where the MC spoke about her BDay.
Is there a certain day that the event was supposed to occur. After the cabin where the BDay was talked about is when I went to the High Elves, is it possible that her event was supposed to take place while I was gone therefore it won't be able to be progressed?
No, all events are on a timer between 2 - 4 days in most cases. Then the other requirements must be met. For Ashley's birthday, all the main characters must be available.