That's true, I'd forgotten about the kiss. I guess it would have bothered me more if he'd been awake, but since he was asleep I took it as a hopeless gesture - but then, my brother once climbed a tree outside his crush's window at that age and sat there all night watching her... and they were third cousins. I probably have a high tolerance for slightly creepy behavior. :D
Also, I just hated the way the family reacted so much that they're firmly in the bad guy role in my mind, lol.