I don't think that the genre is primarely is "adult game". It is a management game with character building, I really welcome the change of the weekly limit, as it turns it actually adds a small element of planning, also it doesn't matter if you are not at "home" for a day now, as you can flex it during the week.
I would like to be able to use 1 date/sex per timeslot though rather than being limited to 1x per day.
The obedience changes are, wile very noticable, of little concern. They just make cuffs/collar/maid a lot better early on, I still think that the social skills are waaay too good to be fair though. Especially Lust drain/shared toy/the location wide work buff.
I don't know, maybe it is just me, but I kinda just give incubus/succubus to about every character (which isn't supposed to be in combat 24/7), either the regular exp gain is too slow or lust drain is just waaay too good.