In a situation with Lea it requires bodywriting and sweetness skill to require option 1 i have both still can't choose it why?
Did you get the “sweetness” skill just a bit earlier, as a bonus for having chosen Lea as your crush?
There is a bug that makes it so the “sweetness” skill acquired that way does not “work” in a very small percentage of saves. I already have a fix that should make it work 100% of the time, that will be in next update (just making sure I didn’t screw up anything else).
For now, can you please load a slightly older save, and get the “sweetness” skill the normal way ? You just have to buy the "sweetness" skill from the Menu like all the others, before you pick the same choice that would give it for free (but pick that choice anyway, it's important for the story and it'll give you your 20 pts back)
That should solve the problem. Sorry for the inconvenient.
(If you don’t have an older save: in the Load Menu, you can look in the “A” tab where the autsaves are. Since those two choices are close together, you may have one auto save there that suits you. You can also load one autosave that’s closer to that choice and try to rollback to it)
PS: I’m assuming the problem is that you got the "sweetness" skill for free because you have chosen Lea as your crush. If you haven’t, please let me know, because that would mean it’s an entirely new bug unknown to me. Thanks.