Reading from his context, I guess he means you don't necessarily need to add kinks/fetishes that are too unrealistic/are forbidden in reality to avoid troubles that people might overreact? or you can soft-core it to make it less unacceptable.
This is fully in my opinion so what it actually suggests might be different from the comment originally, no offenses.
But I don't think this is needed. Since ultimately, we can still toggle those on/off through preference. And you did said is up to your patreon supporters to decide and you're not that interested in the kinks listed above. So please no-touch it in case it will drop your motivation.
I know it was none of my business but I still couldn't stand to see the author having troubles reading between the lines, sorry for interupting.
You're completely fine I probably should have done a better job of explaining and organizing everything together in a way that could be understood but I guess I have trouble with that especially if I can't get my thoughts together and put them out there on any comment boards that are online on the web these days in a way that's clean and thorough that isn't misunderstood by anyone who sees it to begin with.