I think that in thinking this way you may cause potential for people to miss scenes.
Sex isn't just dick in hole.
That I know, the only reason why I'm showing it like this is because I happen to refer to penetration (mostly anal) sex, and describing what was happening during that scene... and still saying "it didn't go like that at all"..?
But you're right sex isn't always anal. But what should I lie and tell a blowjob scene is sex too?
that image is from when you when you decide to not have lunch with Korg, just only Ste and you add aphrodisiac to the food. But like I said earlier, the scene might play different if you're a top (but I can't say for sure cause I never checked that out).
Well fingering works cause it involves penetration in any way.
The scene with Korg and Ste is only a handjob, there was no actual sex with them if you're a bottom, again- not sure what happens if you're a top.