Without me knowing where that point is then I can't offer any other suggestions. I know there are a few different kinds of confusing moments in the early game, some of which you have addressed. Some specific quests are confusing and that's frustrating. You get lost a lot. There might also be an early grind problem still. I don't know without knowing more. Could also be the expectation of what the game is not matching what it turns out to be.
BTW thanks for the mob EXP increase. Every bit helps.
[Edit: typo]