Only the Random Portraits mod(https://itch.io/t/984434/randomportraits-and-portrait-pack-editor-for-the-10-ver...) cares about the sex of a person. Neither AricsExpansion nor the Bugfix mod change the portrait assignment behavior from vanilla, which ignores everything but race, so there are no settings to control it. The order of mods should be Bugfix, AricsExpansion, and then Random Portraits.