lemme explain bro,i never came across any avn which had NTR which was justified and showed it nicely executed,in any avn when you try a girl route and follow it,it felt as love,or sometimes lust but you have to treat them nicely to be with them and in the end you have connection which is justified by a good ending.but the reason for hate for the NTR is not just because i hate sharing or another guy fucking girls,it's just because it can't be executed and shown as something that is explainable by any means,it just showcase girls as whore,sluts and as a piece of meat which just wants to be fucked not to be loved,and mostly either male mc is sore looser or female mc is born whore,and even when it is added as avoidable or optional it just destroys the avn since it can never explained on normal terms,even in real life cheating can never be justified even in the sharing it feels empty in these type of avns
The whole point of a harem avn is to showcase love between mc and li,and i know even harem isn't easily justified but at least u have choice to choose single girl route,or go for harem,and each girls story is explained character is shown and you make a love connection to them,which is opposite of NTR but i like to have connection between girl and mc shown as love,in NTR it's just antagonist using girls as slut,and they enjoying it.i m okay with just single girl route,and avn with non harem routes, but feel sad for girls whom we can't pursue and has to leave,at least there some great avns for everyone taste,not every game is single girl route, Harem route, NTR route, avoidable/optional NTR routes,but adding something else to a completely other avn just destroys it,
I hope you understood my point bro